When is the best time of the month to try for a baby?

Advice on when is the best time of the month to conceive.

A lot of advice on when to conceive focuses on timing sex around your ovulation dates. However, one of the best ways to increase your chances of conceiving is to have regular sex throughout your menstrual cycle. This will mean there is always sperm waiting to meet the egg when it is released.

Did you know?

If sperm are not ejaculated frequently, but held back in a man's tubes for more than about three days, the quality greatly deteriorates.

You do not have to have sex every day, or on a particular day of the cycle. Sperm can survive and remain fertile for an average of two to three days (potentially up to seven days), and the egg can be fertilised for up to 24 hours after ovulation.

Find out more about how to get pregnant.

The danger of waiting until close to ovulation is that the sperm will not have time to get there before the egg disintegrates.

Although you can use an ovulation calculator to work out when to have sex, the best conception tip is to continue to have sex regularly in between the times suggested by the conception calculator as well as during them.

Read more about how long it should take to get pregnant.

Ovulation calculator

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What is your average cycle length?

Sources

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  3. Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority, Infertility – common causes of female and male infertility, London HFEA, 2013. Also available at: http://www.hfea.gov.uk/infertility.html (accessed 12 May 2014)
  4. National Institute for Health and Care Excellence, Fertility: assessment and treatment for people with fertility problems, clinical guideline 156, London NICE, 2013
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Last reviewed on June 13th, 2017. Next review date June 13th, 2020.

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  • By Midwife @Tommys on 20 Nov 2017 - 10:08

    Hi there
    Every woman will take a different amount of time to fall pregnant when trying to conceive. Please try not to be anxious, although i know that this is easier said than done. It might be sensible to make an appointment with your GP to discuss this with them. They may be able to offer you some tests, or refer you for tests elsewhere if they suspect that there could be a problem.

    Here are some links below to our website about ow to best prepare your body for conception and pregnancy - i hope you find these useful!
    https://www.tommys.org/pregnancy-information/getting-pregnant/top-tips-conception

    https://www.tommys.org/pregnancy-information/getting-pregnant/getting-pregnant-faqs/do-i-need-have-any-tests-we-start-trying-baby

    https://www.tommys.org/pregnancy-information/getting-pregnant/are-you-ready-conceive

    https://www.tommys.org/pregnancy-information/getting-pregnant

  • By Kamaal (not verified) on 19 Nov 2017 - 22:11

    Since six years I am trying to become pregnant, but failed. i used many types of medicines including herbal chinese medicines> i am completely disappointed, nervous and anxious.thanks

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