When is the best time of the month to try for a baby?

Advice on when is the best time of the month to conceive.

A lot of advice on when to conceive focuses on timing sex around your ovulation dates. However, one of the best ways to increase your chances of conceiving is to have regular sex throughout your menstrual cycle. This will mean there is always sperm waiting to meet the egg when it is released.

Did you know?

If sperm are not ejaculated frequently, but held back in a man's tubes for more than about three days, the quality greatly deteriorates.

You do not have to have sex every day, or on a particular day of the cycle. Sperm can survive and remain fertile for around 5 days, and the egg can be fertilised for up to 24 hours after ovulation.

Find out more about how to get pregnant.

The danger of waiting until close to ovulation is that the sperm will not have time to get there before the egg disintegrates.

Although you can use an ovulation calculator to work out when to have sex, the best conception tip is to continue to have sex regularly in between the times suggested by the conception calculator as well as during them.

Read more about how long it should take to get pregnant.

Ovulation calculator

What was the first day of your last period?

What is your average cycle length?

Sources

  1. Macdonald S, Magill-Cuerden J, Mayes’ midwifery, fourteenth edition, Edinburgh Bailliere Tindall Elsevier, 2012
  2. Falcone T, Hurd W, Clinical reproductive medicine and surgery: a practical guide, New York Springer, 2013
  3. Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority, Infertility – common causes of female and male infertility, London HFEA, 2013. Also available at: http://www.hfea.gov.uk/infertility.html (accessed 12 May 2014)
  4. National Institute for Health and Care Excellence, Fertility: assessment and treatment for people with fertility problems, clinical guideline 156, London NICE, 2013
  5. National Institute for Health and Care Excellence, Epilepsy: the diagnosis and management of the epilepsies in adults and children, clinical guideline 37, London NICE, 2012

 

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    • By Adebisi (not verified) on 28 Jun 2020 - 13:25

      I started my period, when can i have sex and pregnant

    • By Adebisi (not verified) on 28 Jun 2020 - 13:23

      I started my period today,when can i have sex an get pregnant

    • By Emmanuel (not verified) on 25 Jun 2020 - 16:31

      How do I get my wife pregnant for twins

    • By Rum (not verified) on 16 Jun 2020 - 20:26

      I am preg am happy bcoz i counted 14 day from the first day i had a period then i has sex with my husband and i am preg. I know ovulation start after 14days from the first day of your period

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      I get my periods on date one to date four when am I likely to get a child coz am ready for one

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      I saw my period on 6th of this month and saw it last on 8 of this month too when are my ovulating and is time to concieve a boy

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      Hi my wife comes on her period 21 or sometimes 27, how can I get her pregnant and how do I count the dates.

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      Hi

      I am 37 and just started trying for a baby like a week go. Iv just had my period ,I have mental health and take medication as I have severe health anxiety .any advice for me please ?

    • By Fanta (not verified) on 28 May 2020 - 18:10

      Hi I had my period on the 17 May. When to get pregnant please?

    • By Ester (not verified) on 10 May 2020 - 19:59

      I have missed my periods last month, but I know I have nothing to worry about
      But now the problem is that my boyfriend and i, we are planning to start a family...can I still get pregnant,? I mean how?

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      My period came second of may when is my ovulation time and fetilization time

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      i Just started my menstruation may 5 2020

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      My menses started today so when is my ovulation day and which days are most good for sex

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      I want my wife to get a pregnancy of twins but her periods begin on the 24 of a very month for 7- 8 days how should I count?

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      I want twins baby

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      i menstruated today ,may period is five days when will i ovulate

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      I want to get pregnant when should I have sex

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      You need to know your menstrual cycle first.. there you will be able to have a good timing.

    • By Noxolo (not verified) on 10 May 2020 - 12:17

      My periods only takes 3 days or less is it possible to conseve?

    • By Amina (not verified) on 19 May 2020 - 22:38

      My period most time late why still I don't get pregnant

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      When can I become pregnancy and how frequently can I do sex with my husband?

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      My period started today when will I expect my ovulation

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      my period date is on 17th november 2019 so can i have sex before that?

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      I stated my period on 28 October and end it on 1st of November 2019. Pls when is my ovulation taking place because I have been having Sex since then.

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      If i have sex every day to i get pregnant

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      I start my period on 21sept when is the best time to conceive

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      I recently had my period on the 11 Sept and i stopped yesterday. We is the best time to conceive

    • By Elizabeth (not verified) on 12 Sep 2019 - 11:58

      Am on my period now,when my ovulation time start?

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