The most important thing about managing your weight is to be kind to yourself. If you have a bad day, don't give yourself a hard time – you can get back on track the next day.
Make a plan to manage your weight
It will help you set some goals that you can follow and you can pin it somewhere you will see it every day.
Research has shown that people who have step-by-step plans to help them reach a goal are more likely to succeed. Pick some practical things you can do today, such as going for a walk, planning a healthy shopping list or signing up for a pregnancy exercise classes. If your plan is clear and simple it is easier to stick to it.
Give yourself goals you can achieve
Start by picking the easiest things to change and make the changes very simple. For example, you could say, 'I will have a healthy breakfast every day instead of skipping breakfast.' Or 'I will take a healthy snack to work instead of buying a chocolate bar.' If you know exactly what you're aiming to do, it will be much easier to stick to than a vague idea that you'll be 'healthier'.
Write your goals on the goal plan and tick them off when you've done them.
Think about why you're eating
It’s tempting to reach for the biscuit tin when we've had a bad day or when we’re bored. You may also be used to having a snack at a particular time of day so it feels as though you’re missing out if you don't have it, even if you're not hungry.
If you're aware of why you're eating, that's a big step towards taking control of eating when you're not hungry. Ask yourself whether you're really hungry and if you are, eat something. If you're not hungry, or you're not sure, you may be thirsty or need something to distract you.
Find a distraction
If you crave food when you know you're not really hungry, try doing something to distract yourself. You could:
- phone a friend
- go for a walk
- get a glass of water or a mug of fruit tea
- have a warm bath, go for a walk
- put some music on
- read a book.
It doesn't matter what you do as long as it takes your mind off eating.
Get active with a friend
If you know someone who is pregnant, or trying to manage their weight, get together to walk, swim or exercise class. You're more likely to stick to your healthy goals if you do them with someone else and you'll be able to give each other support. Getting active with a friend is a great excuse to meet up for an activity, a healthy lunch or just a chat.
Don't give yourself a hard time
Everyone has days where they just don't feel like doing much or when they eat the biscuits they said they wouldn't have. If this happens to you, try not to get annoyed with yourself or feel that you have failed.
Believe in yourself and tell yourself that tomorrow is a new day. You can do this, for you and for your baby.
It feels great to succeed at a goal you've set yourself. For many people, that feeling is enough to stay on track but you could also reward yourself when you stick to your plan. Choose treats that aren't food, such as a bubble bath, a magazine or book, a manicure, haircut or a movie. A reward is a great reason to keep going.
There’s no escaping it: Everyone puts on weight in pregnancy. It’s totally normal and the right thing for you and your baby. Managing your weight by eating well and keeping active is good for you and your baby.
Most types of exercise are fine even if you are overweight. Being active during your pregnancy is safe and healthy for you and your baby.
Your questions about how being an unhealthy weight effects your pregnancy.
Most women who get pregnant after weight-loss surgery have an uncomplicated pregnancy and birth. The risks to you and your baby are lower after surgery than if you kept a very high body mass index (BMI).
There is plenty of support available to help you manage your weight during your pregnancy and after your baby is born.
Keeping active in pregnancy is great for you and your baby.
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ℹLast reviewed on February 1st, 2015. Next review date February 1st, 2018.