We'd had no time to prepare or deal with anything

I wasn't told what to expect and I write this the day after. It hurt, mentally and physically.

Georgi's story of #misCOURAGE

Heartbreaking stories. Devastating stories. The miscarriage story needs to change. That's why we've created Tommy's book of #misCOURAGE. Read this story now and help spread the word that miscarriage can no longer be ignored. Help us change the story to save babies' lives.


December 2016

Georgi Smith

It was at my first scan that we had the devastating news; there was no heartbeat. We were referred to the Early Pregnancy Unit but told to keep positive, as it was more than likely we had got the dates wrong.

My husband and I went a week, convinced everything was okay. A week later, the midwife asked when we'd had the positive pregnancy test and bluntly told us we'd miscarried for definite.

We'd had no time to prepare or deal with anything. I was given three options to continue, as my body hadn't started the miscarriage yet. I opted for the medical evac, an insensitive title considering the situation. 

I was brought back for medicine the next and a hospital visit day after. I wasn't told what to expect and I write this the day after. It hurt, mentally and physically. I suffered contractions for around 8-10 hours with no respite. It was constant, I was not given any techniques on dealing with this and I was scared. 

We were discharged after the final checks showed there was nothing left inside me and we went home. I felt sore, drained and empty. I tell this so other women are prepared. Breathe deep, breathe long and adopt a meditation technique to get through it. 

This was my first pregnancy but I know I will heal and we will try again, despite the experience.

Im still mourning the loss of my little angel, but I know each day will get easier.

Go to the full list of stories.


Please note that the opinions expressed by users in Tommy’s Book of #misCOURAGE are solely those of the user, who is unlikely to have had medical training. These opinions do not represent the opinions of Tommy’s and are not advice from Tommy's. Reading individual, real-life experiences can be a helpful resource, but it is never a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment from a qualified health care provider. We strongly advise readers not to take drugs that are not prescribed by your qualified healthcare provider. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor, midwife or hospital immediately. Read full disclaimer


Your comment

Add new comment