What does neonatal death mean?
If a baby dies within the first 28 days after they’re born, it is known as a neonatal death.
If a baby dies after 24 weeks of pregnancy, but before they’re born, it is known as a stillbirth. We have support and advice about stillbirth here.
Why do babies die?
After the loss of a baby, it is natural to want answers about why it happened.
Sometimes the answer is clear, and other times a doctor or coroner will need to run tests or do a post-mortem to find out what happened and why. Sometimes they may not be able to find out why.
Common causes of neonatal death
Most neonatal deaths are linked to premature birth, because when babies are born too soon or too small they are more at risk of infection and other serious health problems. However, there are reasons why a baby may not survive, even if they were born at full-term, including:
- genetic disorders
- complications during or after birth
Support after your baby dies
The loss of a baby is devastating. We’re here to offer emotional and practical support to parents and families who are going through this experience.
Emotional support for parents after neonatal loss
If you want to talk to a professional about how you’re feeling, our team of expert midwives are available via the Tommy’s advice line on 0800 0147 800, 9am-5pm. If you’re not ready to talk, we have some information that might help:
Emotional support for others after a baby dies
Family, friends and colleagues of those who lost a baby can find it difficult to know what to say or how to help, while also coping with their own grief. Here’s some advice that could help:
Practical support for parents who have lost a baby
As well as managing your emotions in the early days and weeks after loss, you will have decisions and arrangements to make. It is an overwhelming time, but hopefully this practical advice will help guide you through it:
Your body after neonatal loss, including how you will recover after birth, when your milk will come in and what’s happening to your hormones
A very supportive community has built up over the last few years around pregnancy loss. The page below lists a number of blogs and social accounts from people who have suffered pregnancy loss/es or preterm birth.
"When my son was stillborn, I couldn’t find anything to read about the mum’s personal experiences and what to expect... I needed something real, something I could relate to." Hannah Pontillo
All write movingly about their experiences of loss, life after loss and, in some cases, pregnancy and pregnancy/parenting after loss.
Pregnancy and parenting after neonatal loss
Pregnancy following the loss of a baby is likely to be an anxious time for both parents. You should have additional support from your healthcare team. Find out what to expect and how to take extra care of yourself:
There is still a lack of research into the causes of pregnancy complications and loss, and that is why Tommy’s funds research into the causes of neonatal death, stillbirth, miscarriage and premature birth.
Sonia from Birmingham sadly lost her daughter, Angel, a day after she was born.
The pregnancy wasn't the easiest, suffering from hyperemesis, and antenatal depression it was difficult to enjoy any of it.
I can’t begin to put into words, and even if I could I wouldn’t want to, the pain I feel every day and every night over losing Finn.
- UNICEF (2017). ‘Child Mortality Estimates – Global and regional child deaths by cause’. Download from https://data.unicef.org/topic/child-survival/neonatal-mortality/. – referencing the UK data
- NHS Choices [accessed 04/10/2018] Neonatal mortality and stillbirths, https://digital.nhs.uk/data-and-information/national-indicator-library/n...
ℹLast reviewed on October 4th, 2018. Next review date October 4th, 2021.
By Carol (not verified) on 22 Jan 2020 - 09:56
I don't have bby idnt wat is going on