Pregnancy can be an emotional time, so some signs of depression, such as anxiety, are also common when you’re pregnant. But you may have antenatal depression if you feel sad for a long time, or have negative feelings that won’t go away or are too much to cope with.
Common signs of depression include feeling:
- down most of the time
- uninterested in or avoid doing things you usually enjoy
- extremely tired
- tearful a lot of the time
- like you want to avoid people you usually want to spend time with
- restless and agitated
- hopeless or helpless
- anxious or worried
- like you’re not looking forward to the future.
It can be really difficult to accept that you’re feeling low at a time when everyone expects you to feel happy and excited. But feeling down or depressed during your pregnancy is nothing to be ashamed of. Depression in pregnancy is actually very common, so you are not alone. Around one in every ten pregnant women has depression.
Talk to your midwife or GP if you’re feeling low for more than a couple of weeks. They can help you find ways to look after your emotional health. You may also find our tips for improving mental wellbeing in pregnancy helpful.
If they think you are depressed they can help you get some extra help. Depression can be treated, so try not to worry too much. There are things that can be done to help you feel better.
NHS Choices. Low mood and depression https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/low-mood-and-depression/#whats-the-difference-between-low-mood-and-depression (Page last reviewed: 04/01/2016. Next review due: 04/01/2019)
Clinical Knowledge Summaries (2015) Depression antenatal and postnatal https://cks.nice.org.uk/depression-antenatal-and-postnatal#!topicsummaryHide details
Some mums expect to feel excited and happy throughout their pregnancy. Unfortunately this isn't always the case, but there are things you can do to take care of your mental health.
It’s natural to feel a bit stressed or anxious when you’re pregnant. If you are struggling with these feelings you may need help.
Further help and information on mental health in pregnancy
Mark and I have two girls. We also had a son, Alexander, but he was stillborn at 36 weeks.
People were just completely bemused if I said, ‘I don’t really like being pregnant.’
I always say, ‘If your feelings are not normal for you, come and talk to us.’
ℹLast reviewed on October 11th, 2015. Next review date October 11th, 2021.