Share your story

Every story adds a voice. Help end the silence on baby loss, share your story here.

Are you pregnant during Covid and anxious about it? Have you experienced miscarriage, stillbirth or premature birth? Perhaps you've become pregnant after loss or complications? Sharing your experiences helps to break down barriers, challenging the belief that it is 'just one of those things'. 

If you've had a loss you can share your story in our midwife-moderated closed facebook groups - Tommy's Support Group and Tommy's Parenting After Loss Support Group, or on Instagram by tagging @tommys_thebabycharity or using #TogetherForChange. 

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If you've been cared for by a Tommy's research centre or clinic, or have used our pregnancy information and support, please fill in the form below.  

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Your details will only be used by Tommy’s – we will never give your information to other organisations to use for their own purposes. Read our full data protection and privacy policy for further information. In addition to receiving our updates email, we may contact you from time to time with information about individual fundraising events. You are free to change your mind at any time and opt out.

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Your story will have a permanent home on the Tommy's website. Read terms of use.


Please note that the opinions expressed by users in their stories are solely those of the user, who is unlikely to have had medical training. These opinions do not represent the opinions of Tommy’s and are not advice from Tommy's. Reading individual real-life experiences can be a helpful resource, but it is never a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment from a qualified health care provider. We strongly advise readers not to take drugs that are not prescribed by your qualified healthcare provider. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor, midwife or hospital immediately. Read full disclaimer

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    Thank you to the parents who are helping to #breakthesilence by sharing their stories of babies lost during pregnancy or afterwards.

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    We have information and support for anyone who has experienced the loss of a baby, whether through miscarriage, stillbirth or neonatal death.


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    Through The Baby Loss Series we want to raise awareness of the prevalence of baby loss, make parents feel more supported and less alone.


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