I feel defeat, I feel I could never have strength to try again

My doctor said that this happens sometimes, that he has patient with 7 spontaneous abortions and then a normal pregnancy, but I feel just ruined.

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August 2016

Paloma

I had an early miscarriage on August 1st. This was my first pregnancy and me and my husband were very happy. I told my friends, my mother, my colleagues...

I just felt that everything will be all right. But it was not.

First my doctor told me it could be ectopic pregnancy, but then he said that it is not but to be prepared because the things will go wrong. Unfortunately he was right.

On August 1st I went to work and then the bleeding started and the pain too. I rushed to my doctor, but he said that the spontaneous abortion is on and nothing can be done. He said that this happens sometimes, that he has patient with 7 spontaneous abortions and then a normal pregnancy, but I feel just ruined.

I feel defeat, I feel I could never have strength to try again and if I try, I am afraid that this could happen again and again. All women close to me already have babies or are pregnant and I even cannot look at them now, I start crying ... I am 31 years old and I think I have no time , because the risk of miscarriages raises with the years.

Does someone else feel the same?

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